VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 98 | 06 September 2025 Hey Reader💐, Any conversation about femininty in a woman would not be complete without talking about masculinity. In her. And in men. So that she can understand what healthy masculinity is and what it looks like in herself and in the men she interacts with. I did mention in a previous newsletter that I'd write about this, to shine a light on the beautiful masculine. So here we go. To start, God...
12 days ago • 5 min read
VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 97 | 30 August 2025 Hey Reader💐, I'm in the book of 2 Samuel and a passage just sprang up to me that I never noticed before. That does and will happen. It's not that you're a bad or inattentive Bible reader. Because you're never really where you were the first time you read that chapter, and you're it again through a different lens. This lens, called the driver filter focus in transformational life coaching, is what...
19 days ago • 5 min read
VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 96 | 23 August 2025 Hey Reader💐, Last night I was at our senior leadership women's event, rounding off the Women's Month activities. One of the most common threads between the speeches was the idea that 'women have to be masculinized to succeed in leadership'. One speaker put it this way: women become men! To my delicious surprise, one speaker beautifully touched on the need for women to lead in femininity because we...
26 days ago • 5 min read
VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 95 | 16 August 2025 Hey you💐, Out there in the streets they're saying we're causing a ruckus with all this 'divine' femininity agenda, reinforcing outdated gender norms, amongst other things. I don't know if you sometimes agree with them or not. But I'm confident that 1. you're still here because you resonate with what I teach about femininity, and 2. you enquire in the Word yourself on the things I talk to you about....
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VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 94 | 09 August 2025 Hey you💐, Last week, I talked about becoming soft. And I thought it important to also talk about the cost of staying hard. Today August 9th is National Women's Day in South Africa. The women we're commemmorating chanted back in 1956: 'You strike a woman, you strike a rock'. In one context, my heart weeps at this, because out of adversity we had to be hardened. We were shaped by survival. Conditioned...
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VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 93 | 02 August 2025 Hey you💐, Becoming SOFT means becoming restful; releasing stress and tension to become more relaxed, becoming less forceful and less combative. Softness doesn't mean being easy, a walk-over or accepting of everything. It rather means being approachable and inviting, and then deciding to accept or not. It means being flexible, not to appease others, but for the sake of your purpose. If you've been...
about 2 months ago • 7 min read
VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 92| 26 July 2025 Hey you💐, So, don't judge me neh! Like I said, I still get some things wrong when it comes to my femininity embodiment journey.😊 I do give myself a lot grace, and you MUST as well. After all, we can't undo over 40 years of being in 4 months. What you can do in 4 months is learn the skills, how to use the tools you've have been given, and get started. With the right support (coaching & like-minded...
about 2 months ago • 6 min read
Hey Reader,💐 Not me again with goodies for you! 🌿 This time it's my friend Faith Mariah with a curated basket called the Best Summer Ever Bundle, featuring a collection of high-value resources designed to help you prioritize your mindfulness and wellness…and giving them away for FREE! And, yeah you guessed it, I'm part of it! 🙌💖 From July 28–31, you can access an amazing collection of free wellness tools and resources to support your journey—whether you’re soaking up the summer sun (it's...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
VERSION 1.O INSIGHTS Reclaiming who we were created & called to be Issue # 91| 19 July 2025 Hey you💐, Part of my morning routine is to read a chapter or two of the Bible. I read the Bible from Genesis to Revelations, and when I'm done, I read in reverse from Revelations to Genesis, continuing the same cycle. I'm now in the Book of Kings, and last Saturday morning I landed on 1 Kings 8, and verse 13 in particular. The chapter is about the bringing of the Ark of the Covenant after the temple...
2 months ago • 5 min read